There are a few things you should know first of all, that create that wonderful “crush” feeling that provokes such hope for a happily ever after.
So, you plunge in and hopefully use protection, but is that enough?
Are you going to wind up getting hurt and broken hearted anyway? How do you follow your “heart” (hormones really) and still be smart?
As I see it, there should be no discussion of a relationship, or exclusivity, within the first three months of dating.
Those three months should be a drama and ultimatum-free zone. Just a period of savoring; the gritty, totally worth it hard work can come later. If something works between two people, then there is no rush.
Everyone puts their best foot forward in a new and blooming relationship.
It feels natural and it’s easy to do because both of you want to please the other so everything seems to be flowing so smoothly. you don’t know each other yet – no matter how much you talk and share secrets you’ve never told anyone else!Meet each other’s friends and try to pay attention to them, they will tell you a lot about your new love. I mean, really, would you loan your car to someone to drive out of state with that you had only known 6 or 8 weeks?Meet each other ‘s family’s if that’s on the agenda for you and don’t sweat about it. Your heart and your life are far more precious than a car. This is why many generations have advised not being sexual too quickly or spending too much time together in the early days.They are just people too and if you pay attention, they too will tell you about your sweetie… Fouth, go ahead and enjoy all the activities you want to – even sex if that’s alright with you. Your hormones are in control and they have no agenda except to mate.Fifth, about 82 days in, you will begin to notice a slow down in your need to see this person at every opportunity.You’ve probably had this feeling before too but, we forget when it wears off and we end the relationship for good realistic reasons, so it always feels new and different when it happens again. Second, don’t jump off the cliff and dive in with “I love you” or even thinking that this one is so different than any other.